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How to tell your girlfriend you're a felon For many guys with felony's, it may be difficult to tell your girlfriend. What's even more difficult is telling her why you have a felony. Many guys with felony's are often afraid of telling the person who they are with, because of the stereo type that a person with a felony has. A person with a felony is not a bad person. In many cases, people who have committed a felony will have a hard time finding a job. So how do you tell your girlfriend you have a felony and because of it, you can't find a decent job. If you are a man with a felony, it's a good idea to be up front with her and tell her what happened. Be prepared because she may not want to be with a guy who's a felon. If you are up front, at least she won't fall in love, then has to make the difficult decision to leave you. Not only will she be hurt, but all the time and energy that you invested in your relationship will be a lost. If you choose to wait to tell her you are a felon, find out what she thinks about related issues about people who are a felon. If she thinks certain felons aren't as bad as people say, then it can be an easy process to handle. Wait for the right time to tell her that you are a felon. You have to find the right words or it can be a disaster. Start off by saying something like "Theresa there's something we should talk about", or "it's been a long time since I've felt so comfortable around someone", and go for it. Seek out women who may have a family member, or a close friend that has a felony. This will make it easier to tell her about your ordeal. She will probably be more open minded and sensitive to what you have going on in your life. Telling a women you are a felon may trigger different responses as to how or when you tell her. Some women want to be told upfront, making it easier on them to figure out if it's worth staying around. For some women, dating a felon is something that won't really matter to them, as long as they are getting treated right. If your a convicted felon, there has to be a point when you feel the need to start dating. Take your time in figuring out how and when to tell a women what has happened in your past. If she runs away, then just know that it wasn't meant to be, and there will be someone who will accept you as you are.
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