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Sex after marriage For men, not having sex can really put a damper on a marriage. After marriage, there are many things that need to happen to have a healthy sex life. Here's a list of things tips on how to continue to have a wonderful sex life with your wife. Keep the lines of communication open. Communication is one of the biggest keys to having great sex in a marriage. If you are frustrated by your sex life, talk to your wife about it. Be open and honest but make sure not to make accusations or blame her. Be realistic. After the honeymoon is over, don't expect your wife to want to have sex with you every night. Your going to find out that having sex will largely depend on the type of mood she is in, how tired she is, and if she has to take care of children and household chores. Understand where she's coming from. Most women can't enjoy sex without a clear mind. If she's worried about her job, the kids and normal stuff around the house, she might not be in the mood for sex. Help relax her by doing chores, and making sure the children are taken care of sex with her, make sure the chores are done and the kids do there homework. Foreplay is major. Guys, if she isn't in the mood, and she hasn't said no (remember, no means no) kiss her a little longer, touch her a little softer. She'll remember how good it feels and she may get in the mood. Don't make her mad. If your wife is mad at you, you can kiss your chances of having sex goodbye. Women are not like men. A women can make a guy mad and he might be ready to to have sex with her in less than ten minutes, that's not the way it works with women. Respect her. Just because she fell in love with you and decided to marry you, doesn't mean you have to stop being courteous and polite. Avoid being grouchy. If you're having a bad day, don't take it out on your wife, that will get you no where. It will hurt your chances of any sexual activity. Set the mood. Try and set the mood early in the day. Before you leave for work, engage in a little foreplay. By doing this, she'll be thinking about you sexually throughout the day, and by time she gets home, she'll probably be ready to make love to you.
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