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How to Become a Better Kisser While we all like to think we’re great kissers, there’s really no way to know for sure. Even if you’ve been complimented on your technique, isn’t there always room for improvement? Kissing is a big part of our lives, from giving our kids a peck on the cheek to a passionate embrace with a partner. Whether you consider yourself an expert or feel the need for improvement, there are a few ways to boost your kissability. When it comes to kissing, touch is seriously underrated. While you’re locking lips with your partner, run your hands through their hair or slide your fingers tightly down their back. Even a light brushing of their thigh will make the kiss more significant, by producing extra-pleasurable sensations. Hands-down, the biggest complaint of unsatisfied kissing partners is sloppiness. It’s important to remember that you’re showing your significant other affection, not trying to consume a portion of their face. Some people are incredibly sloppy kissers and leave their partners with wet faces. Not surprisingly, this is a total turnoff. Under no circumstances should your partner be thinking about wiping his or her face while you’re playing tonsil hockey. Speed is also important when it comes to kissing. If you partner is the slow type, you should be careful not to get ahead of yourself. Similarly, if they work you into a sweat within the first few minutes, adjust accordingly. Kissing is not about your technique or that of your partner’s – it’s about finding a great mix of the two. It’s worth the extra effort; when you find that perfect middle ground, it can make you feel as though you’re being lifted off the ground. Whether you’re a man or a woman, soft lips are always an added bonus, too. While women’s lips are often coated in smooth lip gloss, men are not so fortunate. No one wants to lean in for a kiss with someone whose lips are chapped, peeling, or dry. Above all else, use common sense. If you have a cold sore, or a busted lip, it’s probably best to save the kissing session for another time. Once you’ve conquered the physical aspect of things, you’ll be ready to move on to timing. As with many other displays of affection, timing is everything. Many men and women thrive on spontaneity because it throws some unexpected excitement into the escapade and drives their partner crazy. Whether you’re naturally impulsive or you have to force yourself to steal a kiss out of the blue, your partner is sure to respond positively.
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