MamasHealth.com Home Sexual Health Abstinence Addicted to sex Anal fissure Aphrodisiacs Be a better kisser Become sexually confident Better orgasms Boyfriend refuses to wear a condom Breast cancer and sex Child saw us having sex Comfortable sex positions Consequences of rape Crying during sex Cybersex Date rape Dating a virgin Delayed puberty Diabetes and erectile dysfunction Dirty talk Embarrasing sex Erotic dancing Escaping an attacker Faking it Finding time for sex Friends with benefits Great First-time Sex Health benefits of sex Help! The condom broke Importance of sex Improve your sexlife Intimacy tips Intimacy without Intercourse Keeping sex fun while getting pregnant Lost sex drive Managing sexual side effects of medicine Marital rape Menstrual problems Orgasms Penile fracture Puberty Quiet sex Retrograde ejaculation Links Email Mama More hot sex topics Bolas Chinas	Help, My Boyfriend Refuses To Wear A Condom Some men formulate different reasons not to wear condoms. Men who refuse to wear condoms either complain that condoms do not fit them properly, ruin their sexual appetite, or prevent them from enjoying sex. If they refuse to wear condoms because of these reasons, tell them that you will not enjoy having sex with them if you keep thinking about the risks. There are several responses that you can use in order to invalidate their excuses for not wearing condoms. Here are some of the responses you can use against their excuses: “It kills the mood!” Respond with, “It kills the mood when I worry about having unsafe sex!”  “I can’t enjoy sex while wearing condoms.” Tell him, “Well, I can’t enjoy sex unless I know we’re protected.”  “It makes me feel weird and uncomfortable!” Reply with, “Buy a size that fits you.”   “Didn’t we have sex without a condom before?” Respond with, “Yes, and I got scared. I don’t want to risk it again.” “We don’t need condoms; you’re on the pill!” Tell him, “Pills cannot protect us from STDs. Wearing a condom reduces our chances of getting STD’s.” “Trust me, nothing will happen.” Tell him, “Even if I think you are trustworthy, there is no guarantee that nothing will happen.” Pleasurable sex while wearing condoms is definitely possible. Men are worried about not feeling pleasure while wearing condoms, but there is nothing to be worried about. There are condoms that are made to create and stimulate pleasure in a man or woman. Your partner who refuses to wear condoms just needs to find the right type of condom to feel pleasure, while maintaining protection. Studded condoms are one of the many types of condoms that are designed to increase pleasure for males and females. Condoms such as Mutual Pleasure and Trojan Shared Sensation have ridges and raised bumps to arouse females, and a flared design at the tip to keep it spacious for the men. Many condoms have wide tops to stimulate nerve endings and heighten male and female sensation. Thinner condoms also stimulate more sensation than thicker condoms.	Sign up for our Email Newsletter For Email Marketing you can trust
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