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My Partner Wants Me to Watch Porn with Them Many women regard porn as degrading, dirty, and immoral. However, this is exactly the same reason why men love it and ask their partners to watch porn with them. They want the best of both worlds. So what are you suppose to do if your partner asks, “Can you watch porn with me?” Your initial reaction might be, “No way, that’s too degrading.” But the truth is, more couples are watching sexy videos together. According to The Sun newspaper, 57% of women watch porn with their partners. Instead of channeling all his sexual energy into the woman on screen, he is able to channel it to his partner. Porn is a good stimulator to keep couples focused during sex and use it as a form of foreplay. Watching porn could also help you and your partner become more spontaneous in the bedroom. It does not hurt to try something spontaneous and completely different with someone you love and trust. For a couple that has a healthy relationship and does not have trust issues, porn can utilized as a vehicle for sexual fantasy, possibly bringing a couple even closer together and developing a deeper sexual connection. Keep in mind that you are not obligated to watch porn because your partner asked you to. You always have the freedom to refuse. If your partner thinks that you should watch porn together, but you completely disagree, you could try role-playing with him. Role playing can stimulate sexual energy as much as porn can. Pick a storyline that could arouse both of you, and buy the necessary toys and costumes from an adult novelty store to start your sexual role playing. Unlike porn, your trust issues with your partner do not have to be a factor in role playing. Role playing could just be between you and your partner, and you don’t have to worry whether he is more attracted to the porn star than you. In addition, role playing could be more fun than watching porn since you are able incorporate ideas which you think are sexy to the act. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to watch porn with your partner or not. You have to examine the type of relationship you have, your personal views, and if you are comfortable with it. If you find yourself feeling uncomfortable watching porn, tell your partner and suggest some alternatives, such as role-playing. If you are not comfortable with watching sexy videos or doing the alternatives, then tell your partner. If he wants to be with you, he will listen and respect your beliefs.
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